Ordering For Success
When it comes to first dates, most of us spend hours picking out the perfect outfit or the right venue. We read guides on conversation starters and body language as we prep for the night ahead. But did you ever consider the importance of meal choice? Ordering the right thing can make or break your night!
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1. Garlic Bread
While there’s nothing wrong with a tasty appetizer, you’re mostly trying to avoid the garlic aspect here. Anything with garlic, whether it be bread or pasta, is a no-go on a date. The last thing you want your partner smelling when they lean in for a kiss is strong garlic.
2. Chicken Wings
Chicken wings, burgers, and ribs are all foods that suffer from the mess factor. Any food that’s covered in sauce and requires hands-on handling can lead to stains and spills over your shirt and mouth.
3. Spicy Noodles
A bowl of spicy ramen is the ultimate comfort food when it comes to late-night Netflix binging, but you’re better off avoiding all spicy foods on dates. Unless you have a top-notch tolerance, excessive sweating and panting may give your date a bad impression.
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4. Organs
For those of you who like exotic meats, such as livers and kidneys, you’re better off holding off on such orders on a first date. Some people are sensitive to these meats and may consider them extreme.
5. Spaghetti
Although this may appear like a classy and tasty option, the red sauce that accompanies spaghetti is known to cause major staining. If a drop of that red spills on your shirt, it isn’t coming off for the rest of the date.
6. Whole Fish
The issue with a whole fish is often the face and eyes that are left attached. A lot of people find such foods intimidating, and you don’t want to make your date uncomfortable. Get a fillet instead, or maybe some fish and chips.
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7. Numerous Modifications
While not a specific order, burdening the waiter with numerous modifications can make you come across as high maintenance. It’s totally okay to ask for a change or two, but if your sentence is turning into a paragraph, then it’s time to reassess.
8. Fondue
To some, fondue may seem like the perfect date food, but in reality, you’re better off saving it for a third or fourth date. For the first outing, fondue may be too intimate, and you don’t want to discourage your date from eating if they’re feeling uncomfortable.
9. Strong Sea Food
While many people love seafood, be sure to check with your date before ordering an exotic blend of ocean delights. For some, the smell of really strong seafood can be off-putting.
10. Excessive Alcohol
Having a drink or two to lighten the mood can help you relax and enjoy one another’s company. But like all things, excess is the enemy. Follow your date’s lead when it comes to alcohol and ensure you’re not overdoing it.
Now that you know which menu mishaps to avoid, here are 10 staples you can reliably order anywhere and anytime.
1. Breadbasket
Having a breadbasket at the table is a great way to settle into the night. The two of you can take your time breaking off pieces and buttering up toasty morsels. It’s a way to keep your hands busy as you get comfortable in each other's company.
2. Sushi
A sushi date is a classic, and if your partner is interested in seafood, then this is a great way to break the ice. If you opt for an all-you-can-eat venue, then you can share food and try new things too.
3. Grilled Chicken
When it comes to proteins, picking something sensible and mundane like beef or chicken is a good option. Gamier meats might be a bit too intense for your stomach, and you don’t want anything compromising the night.
4. Shareable Appetizers
A large appetizer that is hands-off and not messy is another great segue. Consider stuffed mushrooms you can eat with a fork or even a cheese platter. This way you can share food and conversation.
5. Simple Salads
Avoiding overcomplication is key to a successful dinner date, and so it’s no surprise that many swear by a simple salad. You really can’t go wrong with a salad, even if you decide to throw in cranberries or goat cheese.
6. Risotto
While many pasta dishes lend themselves to messy and dark sauces, risotto is a light option that can keep you occupied. It’s a classy choice and one that is available on most menus.
7. Seasonal Specials
Ordering a special is always good practice, as it ensures you’re getting a high-quality and fresh meal. Additionally, this can show your date your bold side, as you’re willing to go off the menu and sample the season's offerings.
8. Pizza
While it’s best practice to avoid hands-on food, pizza may be the exception. This is because you can easily hold the pizza by the crust, and if you’re careful, you can eat it all without any spills or stains. If in doubt, it’s common in some parts of the world to eat pizza with a fork and knife.
9. Calamari
If you’re a seafood lover, calamari is a safe option. Not only does it make for a fun shareable appetizer, but it’s light and lacks the distinct seafood smell that some people find off-putting.
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10. Slice of Cake
Dessert is the perfect end to any night and choosing a slice of cake or any other light and shareable option is a great way to insert a little romance into the eating experience. Just make sure your date is on the same page before you order that slice.
